The only medically researched method of tapering off benzodiazepines that we are aware of was done by Dr. Heather Ashton. Her work in the field of benzodiazepine withdrawal syndrome resulted in what we've come to know as the Ashton Manual.
Dr. Ashton recommends changing faster-acting benzos like Xanax, Ativan and Klonopin for an equivalent dose of Valium and using the Valium to get a smoother, more controlled taper. This is all explained in her manual.
In the last few years we've had a number of people use a method called "Water Titration" to get off their benzo. It was developed by a list member who learned the method from a former list member. Many who were unable to get their doctors to prescribe Valium or simply didn't want to do the Ashton crossover have used the water titration to get off the faster-acting benzos.
We also have a version called "Lee's Simple Water Titration." This is not true titrating but is a very simple version of just using water to dilute the drug so smaller cuts can be made.
Some people have used compounding pharmacies to get the smaller doses they needed to taper off their benzo.
So the biggest question is which method is right for you? Well, of course, that depends. Can you get your doctor to prescribe Valium? Do you want to taper Valium? Would you rather try just cutting your pills in tiny pieces and making cuts and see how it goes? Would you like to try water titration? Do you just want to dilute your pill in water, take out a dropper full and taper that way?
No one needs to tell you that your way is wrong or that if you don't do it this way or that way, you will be sorry. If the way you choose to get off these drugs is working for you, that is what counts. If you are having a hellacious time and want to think about something else then there may be other methods to consider.
There are as many ways to do this, as there are people. And there are many factors in deciding how to do YOUR taper. There is no one-way and there is absolutely no specific way that can guarantee a symptom-free withdrawal.
So research all the information on this site and at http://www.benzo.org.uk. Decide how you want to taper your benzodiazepine and then get together with a doctor who is knowledgeable in this field and develop a plan that is right for you.